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Official October Charity: UniversalGiving.org

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009

UniversalGiving.org

This is a cool site where you can give money directly to some individual projects. I’m extremely lazy now so not going into detail but you can go to the website and check it out yourself. Just give the money already don’t make me spell everything out for you :)   Also I’m no longer going to give exact details on how much money I’m giving, so you can just use your imagination each time.

Anyway here’s what I gave to:

our gift has been sent! Contributions to charities are tax deductible. Please print this page for your records. UniversalGiving and our NGO Partners thank you for helping to support our world communities.

Gift Package: Provide Gardening Tools for a Cambodian Family
Organization: Landmines Blow!. Based in US.
A set of tools enables a family to plant a garden that not only provides food, but a means of earning an income and becoming self sufficient. The set includes a shovel, hoe, rake, pail and water boiling pot. *
Quantity: 5
Donation amount:

Gift Package: Provide 2 Revolving Micro-Loans for Women to Start a Business
Organization: The Hope Alliance. Based in US.
Give women the chance to provide for their own families by starting chicken coops, produce stands, and small sustainable businesses. These loans empower ambitious women at home and in their communities. *
Quantity: 1
Donation amount:

Gift Package: Sponsor a SEWING MACHINE for a graduate of our vocational sewing workshop
Organization: Miracles In Action. Based in US.
In San Jorge de Laguna, Guatemala women are learning to sew so that they can earn an income working from their home. After the 4 month class, graduates receive a sewing machine which they pay a small monthly fee as a micro-credit loan. This loan. . . *
Quantity: 1
Donation amount:

Gift Package: Give a Destitute Nepali Child the Opportunity to Go to School
Organization: Nepalese Youth Opportunity Foundation. Based in US.
In rural Nepal, most children drop out of school before 5th grade. However, education is the only real ticket out of poverty for destitute, orphaned, and homeless children in Nepal. Why don’t many children in Nepal go to school? Many rural. . . *
Quantity: 1
Donation amount:

Gift Package: Save 500 Mothers’ Lives from Excessive Bleeding after Childbirth
Organization: Venture Strategies for Health and Development. Based in US.
$250 will provide the life-saving drug misoprostol to 500 women to prevent bleeding after childbirth. Excessive bleeding (or postpartum hemorrhage) is the leading cause of maternal death in the world. Because of adequate access to medicines in. . . *
Quantity: 1
Donation amount:

Gift Package: Rehabilitate A Well
Organization: Action Against Hunger. Based in US.
In many communities struck by frequent or even periodic bouts of drought, many wells are quickly dried up and abandoned. As global warming makes patterns of drought more pronounced and population numbers rise in the developing world, there is a need. . . *
Quantity: 1

October Charity

Saturday, October 17th, 2009

Is coming in a day or two. Btw I’m going to basically choose whatever charity I want from now on, as unless lots of people are also donating I don’t see the point in intentionally avoiding charities that those whom I’m close to are very involved in.

Possible October Charity

Sunday, October 4th, 2009

Continuing the theme of education…the following idea for a school is right down my alley.

http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/bestoftv/2009/10/03/nr.holmes.new.way.to.learn.cnn

Also I win the award for laziest blogger of the century no?

September 2009 Charity: BookFruits

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

Bookfruits was a charity suggested by Carole Frampton in a previous post (see if you post a suggestion about a charity and do so with enough passion, there’s a decent chance that eventually we’ll throw a bunch of money at them!).

I had the pleasure of speaking to the Bookfruits executive director, Reba Elliott. We spoke for a while mostly about her life, how she ended up creating Bookfruits, what types of services and activities they offer and what her plans were for the future.

Reba is one of those people where it’s just obvious from talking to her that she’s an incredibly goodhearted person. She left her job as the director of the English department in a university, which came with a very good salary, in order to start a non-profit from scratch, work endless amounts of hours, and make absolutely no money in return.  It’s so difficult and admirable to take this leap of faith, from complete financial and professional security into the unknown. I was so happy just having spoken to her, as talking to someone with her enthusiasm for service and charity kept me exhilarated the rest of the day.

I asked her for a few short paragraphs on her program, as I figured she’d do a more accurate job explaining it than I would:

“Book Fruits’ mission is to change lives through the written word.  Having known themselves the terrific power of the written word, its ability to enrich our humanity and open doors, Book Fruits’ staff believe that people in need deserve to own this power.  Having seen first-hand that people in need know rock-bottom truths about their situations, they believe that the voices of these folks are ones we should heed.

In keeping with these two principles, Book Fruits harnesses the written word to improve communities bottom-up and top-down.  Book Fruits performs direct service in its writing workshops. In the near future,  Book Fruits will perform policy advocacy through a new website which will connect decision-makers with personal narratives from survivors of the toughest problems facing our society.

Book Fruits’ executive director, Reba Elliott, left a great job as a university Advisor to Student Media (a position equivalent to an Associate Director) to found the organization.  This involved a 100% pay cut, and was completely worth it.”

Also I asked for some specific examples of what they do:

  • This fall, we’ll be leading 13 weekly writing workshops.  We’ll be working with kids as young as 3 and as old as 16.  We’re in schools, after-school programs, and a shelter for survivors of domestic violence.
  • The story of one child in our workshops is illustrative of what we do.  D. is a young man in our workshops (we’ll keep his identity to ourselves, because he is a minor).  D. lives in a public housing tower in an area known for its drug violence.  Young men selling drugs are posted outside the door to the tower, and kids without their parents roam its halls for hours.   Poverty, humiliation, and the need to “represent” are the forces at work in D.’s home.  This has taken its toll on D.  When we first met him, D. was pushing away anyone who got too close.   He fought and, although he is extremely bright, was failing his classes.  But a year in our workshops has wrought a change in D.’s spirit.  He runs to our writing group every week, ready to tell his stories.  He thrills in the close relationship with our volunteers and in the recognition, finally, of his smarts.  In fact, this young man was among the few students chosen for participation in Words Alive, our annual public reading and young author signing.”

What it comes down to is that you’ve got a bunch of people volunteering their time to touch the lives of children. I don’t think it really even matters so much what the exact plan and strategy is of an organization, as long as there are good people who want to help those who could use a bit of helping, then I’m all for it. Also when the sacrifices being made are as drastic as the one that Reba Elliott made, then you really know that she was born to make other people’s lives better. How many of us can imagine quitting our jobs cold turkey to create an organization from scratch, without even expecting to make any money from it? I’m happy to do what I can to help her and other people like her in the coming months, and I hope that you’ll join me.

Below are directions on how to donate/help:
“If people are interested in donating, it’s probably easiest to do so online.  Donations are tax-deductible through our fiscal sponsor, Fractured Atlas.  To make a tax-deductible donation online, visit www.fracturedatlas.org/donate and choose Book Fruits as the sponsored project.  To make a donation by check, make the check out to Fractured Atlas and send it to Book Fruits at P.O. Box 11477, Washington, DC 20008.

We also LOVE donations of service.  One thing we have a really, really big need for right now is a new logo.  We’re changing our name to better reflect the two halves of what we do.  Our new name will be Lifting Voices.  We’re redesigning our website, and we’ll need a new logo to complement our new name.  If you know anyone who is a graphic designer, this would really help.  I’ve put up an ad on Idealist and Craigslist, but I haven’t gotten any bites yet.  And our new website is coming out during September!  So this is kind of a small crisis.”.

I think we’ll do really well this time around, as I talked to a bunch of people who say they will give a bit. Please let me know if you have any questions, and I’d love it if you shared your donations in the comments section. I will be starting things off with a $900 donation. Thanks everyone for reading and to anyone who helps. Any amount is greatly appreciated!

Changing your Mind and Forgiveness

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

In politics you always hear about flip-floppers, about how important it is to have a consistent track record on a particular subject, and to stick with your convictions. If a politician should do one thing ten years ago, and then do the opposite today, it becomes a point of attack for his opponents.

The thing is that I think the ability to change your mind is a virtue, not a black mark. Whenever I have a powerful initial thought about a subject, and later find myself thinking it over and deciding that my feelings were perhaps misguided, it makes me feel really good. Good because I know that as long as I’m willing to feel strongly about something and then feel differently at a later time it means that I’m still growing as a person. It means that I’m willing to admit that I was wrong, and there’s not much better for the soul than admitting you were wrong and actually believing it.

The inability to change one’s mind causes so many problems in the world. You start to believe in things not because logic and critical thought tells you to believe in them, but instead because these things are something that you once believed in, so therefore these beliefs must be defended. The large majority of passionate debates that you see on TV probably involve people who are stuck in this vicious circle.

Recently the Philadelphia Eagles signed Michael Vick. For those who don’t know, Vick was implicated in and prosecuted for running an illegal dog fighting ring. He admitted to not only breeding dogs for fighting, but also for brutally murdering dogs that lost these fights. He was convicted of the charges, and was sent to prison for 18-24 months or so.

So I’m from Philadelphia, and I root for the Philadelphia teams (although I must admit I’ve become less interested in sports than I was in the past). My initial feeling was that now I can’t root for the Eagles anymore, because how can I root for a guy who did such horrible things. For those who were around me when I made these claims, they can attest to the passion behind these feelings.

After sobering down and getting past the initial shock, I realize that I believe it’s wrong of me to hold this grudge against the man. Michael did some horrible things, but one of the most beautiful things you can do is to forgive someone who has done something wrong. There is no evidence that Michael still believes that torturing and killing dogs is an acceptable behavior. Perhaps he does, maybe he’s just putting on a charade for everyone, but the truth is we don’t know that. As long as we instinctively believe the worst about someone, without extremely good cause, I think we are doing damage to our soul. Michael may not be the same Michael that he was two years ago, so why should we still treat the current Michael as though he committed those same sins? The person that we hate and chastise today may be a person that cannot imagine ever doing the horrible things that he did, and so it seems that our anger may be misguided.

We live in a society that often does a very poor job of showing forgiveness. If you get convicted of a felony, there are often extreme penalties that follow you around until the die you day. You will have trouble finding jobs, you may not be able to vote, you may not be able to live in certain areas.  Also if you later get convicted of a very minor crime, the sentences will invariably be much higher. I can’t tell you how often Susan has had to defend some guy for a crime that would normally carry a penalty of 0-12 months, but instead because he did something wrong 15 years ago (ie something nonviolent like selling drugs), he’s facing an almost certain 15 years sentence.

We all understand that dog fighting is wrong and we understand that it’s wrong to kill dogs. I think the point has been made to the world many times. I don’t think we need to constantly persecute Michael at every single football game as a reminder to everyone about how bad it is to kill puppies. When it all comes down to it, it will make us happier people to say “you know what Michael, if you say you’ve changed, I believe you and because you are a completely different person than you were when you committed those horrible acts, I’m ready to treat you just as I would any other member of society.” I think that forgiving someone is such a precious gift that in the long run it will make everyone involved happier and anytime you have a good chance to do so, it will raise your spirits to go ahead and do it.

PS- I know I expressed some strong feelings here. If you still hold a grudge against Michael Vick and don’t think he should have this job, I understand. I wasn’t trying to lecture anyone else, I was mainly writing this to speak to myself.  It’s just that in order to properly express my thoughts it’s necessary to sometimes write in a lecture-ish tone.

I am officially the world’s laziest blogger

Monday, August 31st, 2009

So what I’ve been doing lately is whenever I have an idea for a blog post, I go into the dashboard and save a draft…just saving the title, so that when I come back to the blog I will remember some of the things I wanted to talk about, and eventually write about them. Of course thus far I have not managed to expand on any of these posts. In case you are wondering, and hopefully I will write more about them later, the topics are:

1. Discussion of Michael Vick and his signing with the Eagles (I’m from Philadelphia and an Eagle fan!)

2. Some commentary on Martin Luther King (Was listening to a lot of his speeches the other day and realized he’s an unbelievably huge genius. I don’t think a really good job was done of explaining to me in school how awesome he was. I suspect it may in part be due to the pigeon-holing of him as a Black civil rights leader by basically all of my teachers?)

3.  A discussion on the inevitable hypocrisy that occurs when one tries very hard to be open-minded and respectful of all beliefs yet faces beliefs that can easily be considered hateful (most prominently these days… anti-gay sentiment).  This is pretty much a problem I have, and it’s tough to determine where to draw the line between open-mindedness of a belief and contempt/disgust for it. The problem then becomes that once understanding and open mindedness is out the window, any chance for a meaningful debate is also out the window.

4. Discussion of a Mixed Martial Arts fighter who has the phrase “White Power” tattooed on his chest, and the difference in media reaction when a white person says or does something racist compared to a minority saying something racist, and whether this is a good or a bad thing.

So you see that I have lots on my mind, I just need to take the time to sit down and write something halfway thoughtful.

Also the U.S. Chess League starts tonight!

Quick Update

Friday, August 28th, 2009

This is just a quick update so it looks as if I actually update my blog sometimes. Just got back from a trip to Ocean City with Susan. It was fun, we went on water slides.

Also the U.S. Chess League is starting on Monday! Go to www.uschessleague.com to see all the latest news! Thanks to Pokerstars for sponsorsing the league, and also to the Internet Chess Club for hosting it. I love you guys!

Cool talk from Ted.com

Friday, August 21st, 2009

There is this site called Ted.com, which basically involves a bunch of distinguished experts in certain fields, getting together in a central location, and giving talks one after another about some of their expertise. They are then later published for free on the Internet. Some of the talks are really great, some not as great and some I find to be really quite pretentious . Whenever I really like one I’ll probably post it here. I really like this guy:

http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/alain_de_botton_a_kinder_gentler_philosophy_of_success.html

I created a Kiva.org team!

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

If you are on there you should join. There are a bunch of cute kittens as our team photo. Don’t make them cry!

http://www.kiva.org/team/yay_microlending

August 2009: Kiva.org

Monday, August 17th, 2009

So I’ve decided to play it a little safe for the first month, going with a pretty well established charity in Kiva.org.

In case you aren’t aware of what Kiva is, it’s an organization in which you can send money to entrepreneurs, usually in poverty stricken nations, and help them to provide for themselves and their family. The good news is the loan gets repaid almost 99% of the time, so when you are paid back you can then repeat the process with another entrepreneur. Also entrepreneur is a very difficult word to spell.

A lot of comments were positive about this idea, and so hopefully as many people as possible join up! I started with $900 and am going to give it in $25 portions to 36 different entrepreneurs. I already see a bunch of good options for upcoming months, and I’m sure as this page grows there will be even more great causes to choose from.

If you also end up donating, it’d be great if you could post it in the comments page on this post, just to get a sense for how much we can put together in a month.  I understand some people may want to do so anonymously so that’s fine too!It may start out pretty small but hopefully in the future we can get the numbers higher as more people join the fun! Also any amount is good… $25, $50, whatever.

If you do end up joining feel free to share info if you are excited about any of your loans, and maybe we can even start a lending team there.